Why You Should Have a Creative Partner Who is Different Than You
A couple weeks ago, I mentioned that Philip and I were featured in the newspaper. Well, we are getting married soon, so I figured I should introduce him!
Philip and I met in August of 2012 when I moved to Dallas for a graphic design job. I quickly learned a few key things about him: he is friendly, open-minded, athletic, intelligent, creative, self-sacrificing, and he tells the worst dad jokes you will ever hear.
Despite the jokes, we began spending more and more time together, and by 2013 we had started dating. We had lots of adventures together over the course of two years, including lots of traveling:
Our partnership wasn’t just a romantic one; we teamed up on many creative projects as well. Philip is a fantastic person to work with because we approach tasks so differently. I am very strategic and analytical; he prefers to dive right in. So when it comes to making creative decisions, he helps me speed up, and I help him slow down.
When it comes to printmaking, our differences come in handy in three major ways:
First, you may remember in my first blog post, I vowed to be better about diving in. This is something I learned from Philip. He believes the best way to do something great is to just get started. Through him, I’ve learned to let go of my perfectionism a little and embrace the process. This has enabled me to be much more spontaneous and intuitive in my process, and I believe it has improved my work a lot!
Second, Philip is a master of efficiency. When I’m making prints in large quantities, sometimes I focus in on a detail of the process and get off track…or more often, I see something that I think needs tweaking in the design, and I am likely to stop everything to fix it. Philip helps me stay on track and finish the task at hand without getting distracted.
Third, Philip is highly extroverted and great at connecting with people. This makes him a great salesman! He is invaluable at craft shows, because, let’s face it, I’m not the most outgoing person…but he loves it! ?
We also worked together on his book, Miraclist. He wrote it (obviously,) and I designed and art directed the cover and interior of the book, as well as a million other marketing pieces. (Check out the Miraclist website here.) It was a lot of fun bouncing ideas off of him (I went through countless concepts for the cover) and seeing our vision for the book come to life.
After a little over two years, we got engaged!
We will continue to work together on his books (the next in the series is due out this summer) and in the meantime, Philip is going to help me with Wandering Paper Co. He is a great printing assistant and salesman, so if you come see me at art shows, you will see him there too!